Marriage. Now that’s something I shouldn’t be thinking about
seriously well, at my age atleast. But you see, I’ve just watched 27 dresses
for I believe, the 3rd time in my lifetime and for the first time,
It stirred me mentally and emotionally that now, I am writing this blog. And maybe
it’s the Pre menstrual hormones making
me into an emotional wreck lately.
Heres what I learned(?) I suppose?
I would like to believe in marriage.
With all
these marriages falling apart and it being so.. disposable to people just makes
it hard for younger people to believe in it. To believe the whole point of it.
Why would they swear till death do they part in front of all their loved ones,
of God and give up the moment something’s turn out not the way they expected
them to? Why could some people who once loved and adored each other so much just
give up? Why can’t they keep trying and look at the old times, the little
moments, the big moments! And find a reason to stay, I’m sure there’s bound to
be one or two. Why can they make such a sacred commitment seem so.. disposable?
And trivial?
I know I’m
still young and that I have so much to learn and experience. But I would like
to believe, that someday, when I meet the right person and get married, in
front of all our loved ones and our God(s) that it’ll be eternal. And that no
matter how hard things get, we’ll keep trying and not give up. And that no
matter how mad we may get at each other, we would still look back at the little
moments, the reasons and things that got us into marriage and choose to stay.
And that we’ll never run out of reasons to love each other and our marriage.
This may be
a little idealistic and naïve but I just want to believe in marriage and love and
happily ever afters. And eternal love. I want to believe that.
(: x
dani
