Love is Universal

Love. Everyone is in search of it. right? right. and Everyone deserves to love and be loved in return. right? right. The thing is, what is love? really. by love i mean the romantic kind-is it only between a male and a female. and just that? How about the homosexuals? The lesbians? is it not love? what they feel for their lovers? is it love? yes. yes. it is love. for me. it is. why? read on. please.

Love according to a dear friend of ours, merriam webster,it is an attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers. and I believe that it is universal. It could happen to anyone. between a woman and man, man and man, woman and woman. It could even happen between you and me! who knows? I believe that unorthodox lovers deserve to be married as much as the straight lovers do. They love each other. Why hinder them from sharing a life together? anyway, with or without marriage there is nothing anyone can do to stop them from loving each other. All I'm saying is, no one gains anything by stopping gay lovers from getting married legally-- and please dont say that it' degrades the value of marriage and values of the younger generation. it complete and utter -excuse the term- bull shit! Come on. Be realistic. Don't go on pointing  gay lovers and other things that your brain cant fathom to understand for all the wrong things that goes on in this world. As long as their love is real, sincere and thrives, then why not? why the -excuse the term- hell not?

Everyone that loves each other and wants to spend the rest of their lives together deserve to make it a commitment. a life time commitment with each other. Sure, its just a piece of paper but come on. we all know that it makes a difference. If you were in their place getting married would be something, right? An experience that the gay people deserve. I mean, their love is still love. and isn't that enough? is gender really that big of a deal? What I'm trying to say is, Just because the gender pairing isn't the usual/expected that doesn't mean the love between them is any less of value. It's still the same love.


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dani

Talking biiiiiig. Talking biiiiiiig.

Marriage. Now that’s something I shouldn’t be thinking about seriously well, at my age atleast. But you see, I’ve just watched 27 dresses for I believe, the 3^rd time in my lifetime and for the first time, It stirred me mentally and emotionally that now, I am writing this blog. And maybe  it’s the Pre menstrual hormones making me into an emotional wreck lately.

Heres what I learned(?) I suppose?

I would like to believe in marriage.

            With all these marriages falling apart and it being so.. disposable to people just makes it hard for younger people to believe in it. To believe the whole point of it. Why would they swear till death do they part in front of all their loved ones, of God and give up the moment something’s turn out not the way they expected them to? Why could some people who once loved and adored each other so much just give up? Why can’t they keep trying and look at the old times, the little moments, the big moments! And find a reason to stay, I’m sure there’s bound to be one or two. Why can they make such a sacred commitment seem so.. disposable?  And trivial?

            I know I’m still young and that I have so much to learn and experience. But I would like to believe, that someday, when I meet the right person and get married, in front of all our loved ones and our God(s) that it’ll be eternal. And that no matter how hard things get, we’ll keep trying and not give up. And that no matter how mad we may get at each other, we would still look back at the little moments, the reasons and things that got us into marriage and choose to stay. And that we’ll never run out of reasons to love each other and our marriage.

            This may be a little idealistic and naïve but I just want to believe in marriage and love and happily ever afters. And eternal love. I want to believe that.

(: x

dani